Jilaudar means: From Persian/Urdu 'jilaudar' , a compound of 'jilau' (front, procession) and '-dar' (holder/bearer). In Mughal and British Indian court and military contexts, a jilaudar walked ahead of a mounted. It is military jargon and mostly appears in service contexts, war fiction, or among veterans and their families. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than risky behaviour.