Picky means: ; particular; demanding to have things just right.. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than risky behaviour. If your teen uses it, context will usually make the intent clear. A short, curious question about where they heard it is usually all that is needed to know whether to follow up.
picky
; particular; demanding to have things just right.
ˈpɪkiDocumented since 1860sSilenthistoricalCurrent166 viewsLast reviewed Jun 29, 2026＋ Add a definition
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Born ~1860 · 1 year of recorded use19th centurySee decade cohort →
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BlueskyMay 2026
Isn’t this the 1997 rerelease cover? Sorry to be not only picky, but also not at home to access both versions to check. What I can see is that Discogs may also be wrong here.
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BlueskyMay 2026
its my fav track from the album it says a lot bc im picky af keijskejs
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BlueskyMay 2026
I get SO particular and picky about anatomy lol shit 😩
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BlueskyMay 2026
Medieval times is fun but not something you want to do a lot. Of course I'm near the one in Kissimmee, and some of them have more amenities and live performances outside. Go on a cool weather day if you can. And also…
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BlueskyMay 2026
Being a picky eater while having a strong interest in foodTF is funny because I'd rather be most food then eat most food.
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#1·Apr 27, 2026UK
; particular; demanding to have things just right.
I am very picky about the way my kitchen is laid out.
For parents
Picky means: ; particular; demanding to have things just right.. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than risky behaviour. If your teen uses it, context will usually make the intent clear. A short, curious question about where they heard it is usually all that is needed to know whether to follow up.
For ESL learners
picky means: ; particular; demanding to have things just right.. Register: neutral, standard English. Common learner mistake is using the word in a register it does not fit, or assuming a single global meaning; always check the context before producing it yourself. A formal-English equivalent (a synonym or descriptive phrase) is usually safer in writing. When in doubt, paraphrase rather than reuse the slang form.
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#2·Apr 27, 2026UK
(informal) A picture.
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“Isn’t this the 1997 rerelease cover? Sorry to be not only picky, but also not at home to access both versions to check. What I can see is that Discogs may also be wrong here.”
— Bluesky· May 2026“its my fav track from the album it says a lot bc im picky af keijskejs”
— Bluesky· May 2026“I get SO particular and picky about anatomy lol shit 😩”
— Bluesky· May 2026“Medieval times is fun but not something you want to do a lot. Of course I'm near the one in Kissimmee, and some of them have more amenities and live performances outside. Go on a cool weather day if you can. And also don't be picky about eating with your hands. It's aesthetic.”
— Bluesky· May 2026“Being a picky eater while having a strong interest in foodTF is funny because I'd rather be most food then eat most food.”
— Bluesky· May 2026
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#3·Apr 27, 2026UK
(UK, colloquial, not comparable) Of food or a meal: consisting of various small items from which the diner can pick and choose.
For parents
Picky means: Of food or a meal: consisting of various small items from which the diner can pick and choose.. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than risky behaviour. This is a food-related word and harmless in itself. If your teen uses it, context will usually make the intent clear. A short, curious question about where they heard it is usually all that is needed to know whether to follow up.
For ESL learners
picky means: Of food or a meal: consisting of various small items from which the diner can pick and choose.. Register: neutral, standard English. A common learner mistake is using the word in a register it does not fit, or assuming a single global meaning; native speakers immediately notice when slang appears in formal contexts, so always check the surrounding register before producing it yourself.
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“I don't *think* I'm being too picky? maybe I am? maybe as a professional writer I don't deserve a decent place to live? I think that's probably the real answer. I should be paying 90% of my income for a roach-infested garret.”
— Bluesky· May 2026“Well, if he's limiting his activities to underground bunkers, we can always hope he'll "follow the leader". I always hoped he'd be done in by a Ukrainian sniper, but at this point, I'm not picky about who fires the bullet.”
— Bluesky· May 2026“I’m a picky eater and I’d eat all of that! Yes, keep posting your food porn lol!”
— Bluesky· May 2026“I’m so picky about textures and the fiber in those… I just can’t get past it”
— Bluesky· May 2026“i still also feel v physically picky but at the same time when I catch feelings it doesn't always follow those criteria, cos I am just into ~ppl~ I guess not faces I barely remember (bc autism n rly face blind!! not.. just in a rude way lol)”
— Bluesky· May 2026
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Why is this section here?
Slang is read by different audiences for very different reasons. The For parents view re-explains the term in plain, non-judgemental language so a caregiver can understand what their child means without needing the surrounding subculture. The For English learners view focuses on register (when it's safe to use), formal alternatives, and common mistakes — what a textbook won't teach you.
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