Safe mode — borrowed from the computing term for a system booting with minimal features to avoid crashing — describes a person who is deliberately operating with low emotional risk exposure. They're keeping it polite, not offering real opinions, dodging confrontation, and generally refusing to get weird or vulnerable. It's the social equivalent of turning off all your startup apps: functional, but not exactly thriving. Sometimes self-protective, sometimes cowardly. You know you're in safe mode when you've stopped texting back authentically.
She's been in safe mode since the breakup — shows up, says the right things, but nothing real gets through.
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