Frienvy means: A portmanteau of friend and envy - the specific jealousy you feel toward a friend who has something you want, whether it's a cooler job, a better relationship, more followers, or seemingly. It has drug-related associations; worth a calm conversation about which side of the topic your teen is on. If your teen uses it, context will usually make the intent clear. A short, curious question about where they heard it is usually all that is needed to know whether to follow up.