get one's ashes hauled
An earthy American idiom meaning to have sex, typically used from the perspective of someone who badly needs the release.
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An earthy American idiom meaning to have sex, typically used from the perspective of someone who badly needs the release. The "ashes" metaphor suggests pent-up desire being cleared out. Predominantly male-coded in traditional usage but broadly applicable. It's blunt and slightly crude without being explicitly vulgar, landing somewhere between locker-room talk and blues slang.
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(slang) To receive sexual gratification.
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