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in my feelings

Temporarily emotional — melancholy, sentimental, or soft — often triggered by a song, memory, or late-hour text.

ɪn maɪ ˈfiː.lɪŋzDocumented since 2010s2010sGen AlphatrendingCurrent470 viewsLast reviewed Jun 29, 2026+ Add a definition
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Born ~2018 · 1 year of recorded use
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Temporarily emotional — melancholy, sentimental, or soft — often triggered by a song, memory, or late-hour text. "2am, Phoebe Bridgers on, fully in my feelings." AAVE phrase made mainstream by Drake's 2018 single and now a complete emotional weather report.

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  • “All of this talk about Mother's Day has me in my feelings”

  • “But fuck, I just. At least I can keep writing. Any writing is good to do. Ugh sorry I got all in my feelings just because of flashy book covers...”

"2am, Phoebe Bridgers on, fully in my feelings."
Origin: AAVE phrase made mainstream by Drake's 2018 single "In My Feelings."
For parents

Being 'in my feelings' (or 'in my feels') means feeling emotional — sad, nostalgic, sentimental, sometimes wistfully romantic. 'I'm in my feelings tonight' = 'I'm a bit emotional tonight'. It was popularised by Drake's 2018 song 'In My Feelings'. If your teen says it, they are acknowledging their emotions — generally a healthy thing. Worth gently checking in if it sounds heavier than wistful.

For ESL learners

'In my feelings' (or 'in my feels') is an informal expression for being in an emotional state — sad, nostalgic, sentimental, or wistfully romantic. Popularised by Drake's 2018 song of the same name. Register: informal, originally African-American Vernacular English, now mainstream. In formal English use 'emotional' or 'feeling sentimental'. A common learner mistake is to use 'in my feelings' for anger; it specifically denotes soft or vulnerable emotions, not aggression.

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  • “All of this talk about Mother's Day has me in my feelings”

    — Bluesky· May 2026
  • “But fuck, I just. At least I can keep writing. Any writing is good to do. Ugh sorry I got all in my feelings just because of flashy book covers...”

    — Bluesky· May 2026
  • “In my feelings. Why do i have to be fucked up the rest of my life due to things other ppl did to me? It's not fair. Its not fair. I want to live”

    — Bluesky· May 2026
  • “In My Feelings" is a song by Canadian rapper Drake from his fifth studio album Scorpion (2018).”

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Being 'in my feelings' (or 'in my feels') means feeling emotional — sad, nostalgic, sentimental, sometimes wistfully romantic. 'I'm in my feelings tonight' = 'I'm a bit emotional tonight'. It was popularised by Drake's 2018 song 'In My Feelings'. If your teen says it, they are acknowledging their emotions — generally a healthy thing. Worth gently checking in if it sounds heavier than wistful.

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Slang is read by different audiences for very different reasons. The For parents view re-explains the term in plain, non-judgemental language so a caregiver can understand what their child means without needing the surrounding subculture. The For English learners view focuses on register (when it's safe to use), formal alternatives, and common mistakes — what a textbook won't teach you.

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