Being 'in my feelings' (or 'in my feels') means feeling emotional — sad, nostalgic, sentimental, sometimes wistfully romantic. 'I'm in my feelings tonight' = 'I'm a bit emotional tonight'. It was popularised by Drake's 2018 song 'In My Feelings'. If your teen says it, they are acknowledging their emotions — generally a healthy thing. Worth gently checking in if it sounds heavier than wistful.
in my feelings
Temporarily emotional — melancholy, sentimental, or soft — often triggered by a song, memory, or late-hour text.
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Born ~2018 · 1 year of recorded useSeen in the wild
All of this talk about Mother's Day has me in my feelings
But fuck, I just. At least I can keep writing. Any writing is good to do. Ugh sorry I got all in my feelings just because of flashy book covers...
In my feelings. Why do i have to be fucked up the rest of my life due to things other ppl did to me? It's not fair. Its not fair. I want to live
In My Feelings" is a song by Canadian rapper Drake from his fifth studio album Scorpion (2018).
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Temporarily emotional — melancholy, sentimental, or soft — often triggered by a song, memory, or late-hour text. "2am, Phoebe Bridgers on, fully in my feelings." AAVE phrase made mainstream by Drake's 2018 single and now a complete emotional weather report.
“All of this talk about Mother's Day has me in my feelings”
“But fuck, I just. At least I can keep writing. Any writing is good to do. Ugh sorry I got all in my feelings just because of flashy book covers...”
"2am, Phoebe Bridgers on, fully in my feelings."
Being 'in my feelings' (or 'in my feels') means feeling emotional — sad, nostalgic, sentimental, sometimes wistfully romantic. 'I'm in my feelings tonight' = 'I'm a bit emotional tonight'. It was popularised by Drake's 2018 song 'In My Feelings'. If your teen says it, they are acknowledging their emotions — generally a healthy thing. Worth gently checking in if it sounds heavier than wistful.
'In my feelings' (or 'in my feels') is an informal expression for being in an emotional state — sad, nostalgic, sentimental, or wistfully romantic. Popularised by Drake's 2018 song of the same name. Register: informal, originally African-American Vernacular English, now mainstream. In formal English use 'emotional' or 'feeling sentimental'. A common learner mistake is to use 'in my feelings' for anger; it specifically denotes soft or vulnerable emotions, not aggression.
“All of this talk about Mother's Day has me in my feelings”
— Bluesky· May 2026“But fuck, I just. At least I can keep writing. Any writing is good to do. Ugh sorry I got all in my feelings just because of flashy book covers...”
— Bluesky· May 2026“In my feelings. Why do i have to be fucked up the rest of my life due to things other ppl did to me? It's not fair. Its not fair. I want to live”
— Bluesky· May 2026“In My Feelings" is a song by Canadian rapper Drake from his fifth studio album Scorpion (2018).”
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