'So done' is an emphatic way of saying 'I've had enough' or 'I'm out of patience'. 'I'm so done with this' = 'I cannot take any more of this'. If your teen says they're 'so done' with a friend, class or situation, they are venting frustration. Harmless conversational language; worth a calm follow-up if it suggests a serious problem behind the venting.
so done
Emotionally or patience-wise finished — with a situation, a person, a group chat, life.
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BlueskyMay 2026
The Smokey the Bear ad is cute and all, but it is airing before and after almost every podcast I listen to right now. I am so done with it.
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BlueskyMay 2026
Giving this app another try after being so done with Instagram's bs. this is a sketch i did for ashveil from #hsr while getting absolutely demolished in currency wars #honkaistarrail #sketch
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BlueskyMay 2026
come the fuck on bluesky im so done with this site im forking it all when i get home
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Wikipedia: So Done (Alicia Keys song)
So Done" is a song by American singer Alicia Keys featuring fellow American singer Khalid.
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Wikipedia: So Done (The Kid Laroi song)
So Done" (stylised in all caps) is a song by Australian singer and rapper the Kid Laroi, released on 23 October 2020 as the first single (fourth overall) from the deluxe edition of Laroi's debut mixtape F*ck Love, rel…
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#1·Apr 24, 2026Global
Emotionally or patience-wise finished — with a situation, a person, a group chat, life. Usually said while still very much engaged. "Three hours in this meeting. I am so done" — said in hour two, with two more hours to go. The phrase is a release valve, not a final state.
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“The Smokey the Bear ad is cute and all, but it is airing before and after almost every podcast I listen to right now. I am so done with it.”
“Giving this app another try after being so done with Instagram's bs. this is a sketch i did for ashveil from #hsr while getting absolutely demolished in currency wars #honkaistarrail #sketch”
“come the fuck on bluesky im so done with this site im forking it all when i get home”
"Three hours in this meeting. I am so done."
Origin: 2024–2025 TikTok / internet-viral term; origin contested within weeks of first appearance.
For parents
'So done' is an emphatic way of saying 'I've had enough' or 'I'm out of patience'. 'I'm so done with this' = 'I cannot take any more of this'. If your teen says they're 'so done' with a friend, class or situation, they are venting frustration. Harmless conversational language; worth a calm follow-up if it suggests a serious problem behind the venting.
For ESL learners
'So done' is informal English meaning 'I've had enough; I'm out of patience'. Typically followed by 'with' + a noun phrase ('so done with this homework'). Register: informal, mainstream conversational and chat. In formal English use 'I have no patience left for...' or 'I'm exhausted by...'. A common learner mistake is to confuse the slang sense with the literal sense of 'done' (= finished); the slang sense is emotional exhaustion, not task completion.
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“The Smokey the Bear ad is cute and all, but it is airing before and after almost every podcast I listen to right now. I am so done with it.”
— Bluesky· May 2026“Giving this app another try after being so done with Instagram's bs. this is a sketch i did for ashveil from #hsr while getting absolutely demolished in currency wars #honkaistarrail #sketch”
— Bluesky· May 2026“come the fuck on bluesky im so done with this site im forking it all when i get home”
— Bluesky· May 2026“So Done" is a song by American singer Alicia Keys featuring fellow American singer Khalid.”
“So Done" (stylised in all caps) is a song by Australian singer and rapper the Kid Laroi, released on 23 October 2020 as the first single (fourth overall) from the deluxe edition of Laroi's debut mixtape F*ck Love, released on 24 July 2020.”
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