Sister phrase to "very demure." Used together to ironically compliment someone acting with over-the-top restraint and thoughtfulness. "I waited for the walk signal. Very demure, very mindful." The catchphrase had its full viral life in summer 2024 and now reads as deliberate retro reference.
"I waited for the walk signal. Very demure, very mindful."
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'Very mindful' is the shortened version of the viral 2024 TikTok phrase 'very mindful, very demure' from creator Jools Lebron. Used to describe restrained, considered, gracious behaviour — often quoted with self-conscious humour. If your teen says 'very mindful', they are referencing the meme. Harmless and wholesome; the original spirit is positive (a celebration of poise).
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The slang born in the last two years that's still fighting for legitimacy — clanker, demure, canon event, AI slop, aura farming. Half of these will stick; half will fade by next summer.
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