"agequeer check" means: An agequeer check is the moment when someone tries to figure out — or puts someone else on the spot to answer — whether they actually identi.... This is a fairly neutral word with no inherent risk attached. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than something dangerous. If your child uses it, context will usually make the meaning clear. A brief, curious question about where they heard it is generally enough to know whether to follow up.