"airheadedness queen" means: The person whose airheadedness is so consistent, so perfectly timed, and so somehow charming that they've earned the crown. The airheadednes.... This is a fairly neutral word with no inherent risk attached. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than something dangerous. If your child uses it, context will usually make the meaning clear. A brief, curious question about where they heard it is generally enough to know whether to follow up.