mandem queen
The woman who's so embedded in the crew she's practically an honorary member — not a girlfriend on the periphery but a genuine day-one who gets treated like one of the mandem.
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The woman who's so embedded in the crew she's practically an honorary member — not a girlfriend on the periphery but a genuine day-one who gets treated like one of the mandem. The mandem queen holds her own in the group chat, gets called for advice, and is trusted with the actual plans rather than the sanitised version. She doesn't ask for the title — the boys just quietly accept it.
Aaliyah's been rolling with us since year nine — she's literally the mandem queen, no debate.
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