assholed check

A moment of self-aware or group acknowledgment that someone (or something) is performing poorly, talking trash, or being generally awful. A shitter check pauses the situation to confirm that yes, this behavior or output is genuinely bad — no excuses.

(vulgar, slang) The state or condition of an asshole, or objectionably antisocial person.

An adverb describing behavior done in an assholish manner, meaning rudely, selfishly, or with contemptuous disregard for others. Derived from asshole via the adjective assholish. Used when someone wants to characterize not just what was done but the specific quality of callousness or arrogance behind it. Informal and vulgar but more precise than simply saying rudely or inconsiderately. The word presupposes the existence of assholish as an adjective, which itself is not standard but is widely understood from context.

A state of being in which someone has fully given up on being polite or diplomatic and is operating purely on irritation, bluntness, or contempt. Often invoked when a person hits a social breaking point and stops filtering their reactions.

A vibe or attitude radiating blunt, self-interested, or dismissive behavior — not necessarily malicious, but unmistakably lacking in social grace or consideration. Commonly used to describe someone who acts rudely without awareness or shame, or occasionally to describe unapologetic confidence tipping into contempt.