"baiter mode" means: A state of deliberate provocation where someone is actively crafting content or arguments designed purely to get a rise out of others, with.... This is a fairly neutral word with no inherent risk attached. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than something dangerous. If your child uses it, context will usually make the meaning clear. A brief, curious question about where they heard it is generally enough to know whether to follow up.