"cabbaged maxxing" means: Deliberately and enthusiastically pushing the limits of getting absolutely wrecked, leaning fully into a state of drunken oblivion as if it.... This is a fairly neutral word with no inherent risk attached. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than something dangerous. If your child uses it, context will usually make the meaning clear. A brief, curious question about where they heard it is generally enough to know whether to follow up.