A coquetteer is someone deeply embedded in coquette aesthetic culture — not just wearing the look but studying it, curating it, and often evangelizing it online. Coquetteers maintain Pinterest boards saturated with Lana Del Rey imagery and Sylvia Plath quotes, they own three different lace headbands, and they've done the intellectual work of distinguishing authentic coquette from its many imitators. The term carries a slight air of devoted expertise; coquetteers aren't casually participating in a trend, they're true believers in the aesthetic philosophy. It can be used affectionately by insiders or slightly mockingly by those who find the whole subculture pleasantly extra.
She can tell you exactly why a certain shade of dusty rose is more coquette than another — full coquetteer energy, no notes.
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