raci check

A quick audit of whether someone is actually putting in effort or just talking. An action check cuts through all the plans, promises, and big energy to ask the real question: what have you actually done? Usually deployed as a reality check on someone who speaks in future tense constantly — always about to make a move, always one step away from doing something — but somehow the timeline never arrives. Action checks expose the gap between personality and follow-through with surgical efficiency.

A ratchet check is the moment you pause to assess whether a situation, a person, or even your own behaviour has crossed the line from wild into full-on ratchet territory. It's a quick internal (or group) audit — are we being loud and messy right now, or have we genuinely gone off the rails? The phrase can be used self-referentially with pride by people who own their ratchet side, or as a genuine warning call when someone's actions are about to embarrass the whole group. Think of it as a vibe check specifically calibrated to the chaos end of the spectrum.

A quick audit — personal or public — of whether you're actually following through on what you said you'd do, or just talking about following through convincingly. An actioning check cuts through the endless planning, the beautifully formatted to-do lists, and the very detailed emails about intentions to ask whether anything is actually getting done. Used affectionately as self-accountability or pointedly as a call-out. The friend who texts "actioning check: did you send that email yet" is both annoying and valuable.