A romantic arrangement that's more than friendship, less than a relationship — deliberately vague about commitment so both sides can avoid "the talk." The defining modern dating limbo: all the emotional labor and scheduling entanglement, none of the reassurance.
"I don't want a situationship." — her, describing her current situationship.
situationship means A romantic arrangement that's more than friendship, less than a relationship — deliberately vague about commitment so both sides can avoid "the talk." The defining modern dating…. It's mostly used in dating-app and relationship conversations. It's casual and generally safe with friends and online. It's standard online vocabulary; nothing inherently concerning about hearing it.
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How people talk about dating apps, modern romance, and the situationships they swear they're over — from ghosting and breadcrumbing to soft-launching, hard-launching, and the ick.
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The five stages of situationship grief: (1) "it's casual"; (2) "we're seeing where it goes"; (3) "I'm confused"; (4) the Define-The-Relationship conversation; (5) it ends, badly. Skipping stages is rare. The people who insist they're at stage 1 are almost always at stage 3.
"Month 9 of my casual situationship. Yeah, I'm at stage 3."
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