"token fail" means: A token fail is when an attempt at inclusive representation backfires so obviously it becomes its own cringe. The casting, hire, or storylin.... This is a fairly neutral word with no inherent risk attached. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than something dangerous. If your child uses it, context will usually make the meaning clear. A brief, curious question about where they heard it is generally enough to know whether to follow up.