Abide energy means: The specific calming, unbothered aura someone gives off when they're fully at peace with their situation and radiating zero stress into the room. Abide energy is contagious in the best way - the. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than risky behaviour. If your teen uses it, context will usually make the intent clear. A short, curious question about where they heard it is usually all that is needed to know whether to follow up.