Abide maxxing means: The act of optimizing your life for maximum chill and minimum resistance - taking the abide philosophy and committing to it as fully and intentionally as hustle-bros commit to productivity. Abide. There is no real cause for parental concern; it is descriptive vocabulary rather than risky behaviour. If your teen uses it, context will usually make the intent clear. A short, curious question about where they heard it is usually all that is needed to know whether to follow up.