A benching check is the moment you stop and honestly evaluate whether you're being benched in a romantic situation — kept on the sideline, getting just enough attention to stay interested but never actually progressed to something real. It's the internal or external audit you perform when your situationship feels stuck: they text back inconsistently, cancel plans often, but won't fully disappear either. Friends do benching checks on each other ('have you talked to him this week?'). You do them on yourself in the 3am spiral. Either way, the check rarely produces a comfortable answer.
Doing a benching check on this situation and realizing she's replied to exactly two of my ten texts in a month — this is benching.
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