Bffr energy is the atmosphere someone brings into a conversation that signals you're about to get the uncut version. It's a vibe you can sense before a word is even spoken — the pause before they respond, the flat delivery, the complete absence of 'well, that's interesting.' Bffr energy means the other person has already decided they're not going to manage your feelings today. It's not always welcome in the moment, but it tends to be useful in retrospect. Some people radiate this permanently; others switch it on when needed.
She came into that conversation with pure bffr energy and I knew immediately my pitch needed work.
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