A person, behavior, or situation that screams 'we need to define this relationship' without anyone saying it out loud. When something is DTR coded, the subtext is unmistakable — meeting the parents, keeping a toothbrush at their place, being their plus-one at weddings — all the signals that both people are pretending aren't signals. DTR coded moments are the universe's way of telling you that the vague era is over, and the only thing left is having the actual conversation everyone in the situationship has been strategically avoiding.
He asked me to be his emergency contact — that is so DTR coded and we're both just going to ignore it apparently.
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